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Worried About My Children

How worried should I be about our future children acting like my fiance's parents.

Emily
From Arizona

Dear Emily,
You are very wise to ask this question before you marry. Naturally, we all take on characteristics and mannerisms and habits of interacting with others from our parents without realizing it.

Are you concerned that your fiance acts like his parents now? Do you not like some of his behaviors?

If your answers to these questions are yes, then you will definitely have a problem when the children arrive, because he will still be acting like his parents. However, if your answers are no then you don't have a problem.

Now, let's say you answered yes. Then you may have other issues also that need to be resolved before you marry.



Always use wisdom,
Laura

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